but the couple did not agree.

After the adoption of children with cerebral palsy Xu Mingguang high travel into family difficulties. Southern reporter intern Cai Weijie Liu photo
11 years ago, Jiangxi wife picked up a baby boy in the street, after a local orphanage have been repeatedly rejected, the couple have two sons had to adopt under the abandoned baby.
 
This abandoned baby born deaf and suffering from severe encephalopathy, in order to give him medical treatment, Xu Mingguang spent all their savings. Mocking neighbors, relatives do not understand,http://www.gekiyase.net, under all kinds of combat, his son, his wife has left him.
 
Abandoned children grew up, Xu Mingguang of aging,http://firstmonday.org, a person with a disabled child alone spent more than 10 years later, he had a sense of a moral force, "tired, do not want to fight on, and now I'm just worried about the future of this child unattended care. "
 
Yesterday, the South is a reporter in Chau Street, Haizhu District, Guangzhou, China Small Island Village Industrial Park to see Xu Mingguang, 56 years old, he is graying at the temples,http://seo-directories.info/regist_ys.cgi, waist bow neurasthenia.
 
Reluctantly abandoned baby adoption disability
 
This year is the 56-year-old Pingxiang Luxi County, the 90s of last century to open in Jiangxi Gaoan Hotel. May 16, 1999 morning, his wife Lin Xiyuan sell out early in the morning bread, when passing through a hillside 320 State Road next to the upstream ceramics factory, heard a baby crying. Under a pine tree, she saw a boy Meiqingmuxiu.
 
the baby to the ceramics factory alarm, the police let her hold the child rearing home, the police will find the child's parents as soon as possible.
 
Over the past month, the police failed to find the parents, the local Civil Affairs Bureau under the guidance of, has two sons couple abandoned child sent to the orphanage. "The staff said only take the baby." The couple turned to look for the local media to help find abandoned baby parents, but still no results.
 
In desperation, January 24, 2000, the couple to the local Civil Affairs Bureau organized adoption procedures, formal adoption of this abandoned baby and named him high tour, meaning that in the high-security ceramics factory upstream picked up children, and will pick up the child's time: May 16, 1999 as a child's birthday.
 
Bear the weight of their wives and children
 
Just picked up high travel time, Xu Mingguang couple did not find children who are sick, but when the child woke up, the body will always suddenly trembling every moment, then this phenomenon more and more frequent, in 2002, they put the child brought to hospital.
 
In the Jiangxi Provincial People's Hospital, the Second Affiliated Hospital, the diagnosis allows the couple a surprise, I thought only the most high-deaf tour, found also suffers from epilepsy and mild cerebral atrophy, obstructive hydrocephalus, is a Chi Daier.
 
The doctor told Xu Mingguang, small children, have to wait until the age of eight to be able to surgery. "I was doing business to earn some money, just think about the children can be cured, but also no big problem." High swim after a Chi Daier news, neighbors, relatives tried to persuade lost child, but the couple did not agree.
 
Xu Mingguang want to wait for at least 8 years old tall tour gave him an operation. During this period, his two sons grew up, married to age. July 2005, the eldest son ready to get married with his girlfriend back home. Home and a girl saw feces incontinence adoptive child, Huihun son away from him, and has five months to gestational age fetus destroyed.
 
Girlfriend left,http://www.imacoco.net, unborn children have lost, the eldest son of this attack, it will suddenly become depressed after the parents made a pass to fire away from home.
 
Relatives, neighbors also have accused Xu Mingguang couple for adoption of a child of unknown origin congenital disability,http://www.berry-blue.com, resulting in discord with the son.
 
Lin Xiyuan eventually shake, decided to give high tour, but Xu Mingguang did not agree, he felt that since has been to adopt a child,gucci occhiali, you can not just throw it away, "otherwise, it is a crime, is the kind of sin."
 
July 2005, Lin Xiyuan stand heavy pressure, away from home, alone came to Guangzhou to work. Two sons subsequently left home, never heard from again.
 
Children can not cure the disease hit
 
"They all go well, I'll cure the child to them." Xu Mingguang attack stubborn temper, he believes he is not wrong, the decision must take the high travel anyway dementia cure, "I was like, I've got skills, child cure,http://hasehiro.info/ticket/ticket.cgi, and can teach his craft, as you can earn money to feed himself. "
 
October 13, 2005, Xu Mingguang with high travel out. In the next year or so years, Xu Mingguang removed Hunan, Hebei, Guangdong and other provinces, and take a number of hospitals, spent more than 170,000 yuan, but no trips to the high cure.
 
"This is my business save money for many years," high tour last treatment was 999 Brain Hospital in Guangzhou.
 
"The doctor said, (the child) is not very promising." At that moment, Xu Mingguang felt suddenly broke down, adhere to the belief seemed instantly gone.
 
After a fierce ideological struggle, finally, Xu Mingguang high chose to continue raising tour.
 
Everyone dreams often dependent family reunion
 
Half of the savings spent, Xu Mingguang high travel has become a burden forever. In 2006, the high travel again from 999 Brain Hospital after discharge, devoting himself to decided to stay in Guangzhou. He had learned from a brother in law, his wife, his son might have working in Guangzhou.
 
He started on the Pearl River in Guangzhou University City next fishing with a partner, then the help of several students in the university town located in Panyu next opened a stall. Heavy fumes stall, by living in the neighborhood near the complaint, in 2008, moved to a small stall Island Village Industrial Park, Chau Street, the business before.
 
Perhaps old age gradually, Xu Mingguang said before that you want and wife, son vindictive "I'm right," the heart of the gas gradually gone, and now more and more want his wife and son and wanted a people together.
 
His only comfort is pregnant with old age, raising children is wrapped around him,http://cherokee.main.jp/joyful/joyful.cgi?mode, every night encircling his neck to fall asleep.
 
Families raising children is still "cumbersome"
 
By the end of 2008, Xu Mingguang finally found his wife Lin Xiyuan Meihuacun Guangzhou, Lin Xiyuan now has two sons and better.
 
Under repeated "apology," Lin Xiyuan final "forgive" her husband. Xu Mingguang said that the eldest son for the first time since his girlfriend after the failure of talks, has not married, gave birth to two sons married children.
 
Two sons, never fully understanding father, the key high tour. "As long as high swim in, he was afraid to talk about his girlfriend,scarpe hogan interactive," said Xu Mingguang, once, the eldest son of rage took a knife and said to kill high tour.
 
Two sons will not let his father into the residence in Guangzhou, said his son was afraid,louboutin prezzi, and high travel together also become silly.
 
"My son can say that I do good, but do not get a urine misplacing who harm the family." Come this far, Xu Mingguang own previous decisions began to shake, do not know the original decision is right or wrong. After finding his wife and children, two sons never once invited him to go home, the wife come only occasionally to chat with him.
 
Old and feeble know where the road
 
17:00 yesterday, in the Haizhu District Wah Chau Street Small Island Village Industrial Park,cheap red bottom, the Southern reporter found a stall and dinner time, the business is deserted, without a guest. 11-year-old sitting in a high amusement child bed, strangers to, from time to time be kind to clap Han Xiao silly.
 
Xu Mingguang a row of food stalls in total four bungalows, put two tables, one for kitchen, leaving a dozen square meters of the edge of the house, as a father and son's dorm. In the picture a few years ago, the Xu Mingguang face bright smile, looks like a four-year-old man around. Just four years in the past, Xu has Liangbinbanbai, wrinkled.
 
"This child 14 years old,http://www.trekbbs.com/forumdisplay.cgi, eating and sleeping, or to take care of, ah, I am almost 60 years old, too much of." said he getting older, much larger than the previous body,louis vuitton milano, take care of the high travel more and more powerless.
 
"We can not let him fend for themselves," said Xu Mingguang, not sons of understanding, he is now the most wanted to do was go home to find one of the last days of the monastery to talk, but his son is not fit.
 
Written: Southern Reporter Zhou Songbo